I frequently receive requests for Queening and Smothering. These inquires almost always include wardrobe desires.

I've done Facesitting and Smothering sessions in latex, leather, jeans, business suites, shorts, and of course panties. Although all these sessions are primarily about Smothering and Queening. Wardrobe seems to be a connected, but unique fetish.

What is your wardrobe request for Queening and Smothering? Do you recognize it as a separate fetish?

I have not made a specific wardrobe request of those who have done the smothering, other than the smothering work or succeed! I would probably request panties, I think!

It seems to me as if, usually the smothering or facesitting should lead to other forms of worship or humiliation or abuse. However, it does not have to be that way for the first 2 or 3 visits, but the domme should see if she can use the smothering and facesitting to her advantage . . . to see how the guy will go in other directions, also, if any!
It seems as if, if a guy is highly attached to facesitting or smothering, you should see if he will do it while restrained . . . and see what humiliation you can give him, within the constraints of domme ethics, which might include some trickery or deceit, depending on the context.

Oh, I have watched a dozen videos of smothering that put a guy out.

If the domme does not use the facesitting, queening or smothering to lead to something else worse or more difficult, then, I would feel bad if she does not use smothering to put a guy out!

Do you put many of your subs out when smothering, or any, or is that a risky thing, even though it is in various videos, all over the place?

Have you or how have you used queening and smothering to lead a guy sub into other things, if at all?

I did not think of requesting the smothering or facesitting till I had seen it in a video, but a domme could have done it and introduced me to it, even if I had not asked and even if I did not know much about it. Now I wonder why a domme did not do so in the several years before I began to ask for it!

I didn't enjoy, or think I did at 1st, but now it's incredible and being smothered by my Mistress is something I hope she allows each session,

I've not specified clothing for smothering, but when she has honored by by being in latex it's so special, that and vinyl are my fetishes.

Have 3 hr session coming, I hope she allows, opts for latex, vinyl or leather, but recognize it's her call,

How did your first 2 or 3 smothering scenes take place? did you request them or the domme lead you into them, either without asking first or by asking first?